A question about ladyboys

Maybe she wanted to have at least one single white piece at her body. In this way she could see it in the darkness too.

Yes there are lots but some are controversial and there are often stoushes in local council chambers over local government rulings that allow nude beaches. Some people think it is wrong, others want them and others think they should be allowed even if they don't use them.

Because of this, nudist resorts and venues are popping up everywhere. My friends own a nudist retreat and I used to manage their website. I am not a nudist myself. Unfortunately, some people thing naturist venues are also swingers venues so there is this big divide nudists who are swingers and those ho aren't. My friends had in bold wording on their website that swingers were not welcome.

I am not a nudist myself. I personally think nudity is private between me and my partner. I think I would believe that even if I had a perfect body (which I don't! ) I am a little old fashioned though.

I'm either a nudist but why so pessimistic about your body? Nobody has the perfect body.

I am not pessimistic about my body but I have had a weight problem in the past. I have however lost 26 Kilos since November. I feel significantly more comfortable about my body but still need to loose another 15 kilos to get to my ideal weight.

I know a lot of men like chubby girls, and I have certainly had some very handsome men interested in me. I do however feel the pressure to be a 'beautiful' transsexual like the ones in porn. There is this perception that transsexuals have perfect bodies - probably because the only TS people see are in porn movies and they all have 'modelesque' bodies. I have even had the experience of men not wanting to talk to me when they realise that I don't have a body like a model.

I don't think I am beautiful but I can't change my genetics, I just do what I can. I know it is hypocritical but I am not as harsh on men as I am on myself - I have known TS who only 'date' model like men with perfect bodies. I personally have never found muscle bound men attractive. I look at men in magazines and on tv and don't see what all the fuss is about - they have nice bodies but it doesn't excite me (I don't really find Brad Pitt attractive). A kind face is a huge turn on for me - when you are making love with a man that is what you are looking at anyway

Sorry for rambling.

M.

Well, here in Germany there is a lot of nudist beaches too. German people like something like that. I myself have tried it in my younger years only once but I felt a bit uncomfortably. Not because anybody could see my naked body or my private, no, that isn't the reason. It is rather some people want to appear themselves like in a movie. Almost each man wants to show his body, and especially his willy, to the other ones just to boast to the other ones; and they themselves watch at the others. And, some of these machos feel no shame if they get hard at the beach. No no, that isn't my cup of tea.
I just mentioned that because I was thinking about Wordmans experience in Mykonos. I mean; seeing a nice naked tgirl at the beach can be really arousing. There is no doubt about it anyway. But I would have liked to see all the other ones around. However I prefer the same like you, Oztgirl.

I'm astonished that you have lost so much Kilos and that you want still more. Because if I watch at your avatar, then I don't think that you are that chubby as you mentioned. On the other hand, nobody has the ideally physique. And besides, it is always up to the beholder what he likes and what not. But you are right if you say, a nice face is a huge turn on. That's true, because the face is the first of all you make out if you see the other one. On the other hand, nobody want to look in a ugly face when he makes sex.

Some people like a good body more than a nice face I think. I know a particularly beautiful TS who didn't care what their face looked like - as long as they had a great body - big muscles etc.

I personally like an average man with a 'kind' face. There are lots of attractive men in the world - finding one who is attractive on the inside is a challenge though. The two often don't go together. I have found that a lot of really good looking people are shallow and self-centred. I think getting what you want all the time makes you into a bit of a snob. People definitely treat you better when you are attractive.

This is a photo of me before I lost weight - http://www.mamedubois.com.au/public/greece2006.jpg

I have lost about 8 kilos since my avatar photo was taken. I think it was a particularly flattering photo though.

I hate having my photo taken so actively avoid it. I don't have any recent photos since loosing the weight. I am very self conscious and have always disliked the way I look. That is getting better now that I have lost weight. I might have some professional photos taken when I have lost some more weight and I feel more confident.

M.

Fonseca, it's not my cup of tea, either, but for a different reason. You see, I have a hard time trying to be indifferent and “above it all” when women are nude sunbathing. I mean, “sophisticated” men — especially Europeans — are just supposed to accept it as natural. I don’t buy that. I love the female figure. I DON’T want to be indifferent about it.

Plus it’s frustrating. Okay, I see an attractive woman topless on the beach and I’m supposed to pretend I don’t notice. Then at night, I might see that same women at a disco and she’s wearing a skimpy little dress. NOW it’s okay to lust after her. My mind thinks, “Hmmm, what a knockout. I wonder what she looks like naked..? Oh, wait a second! I DO know what she looks like naked!!!”

My mind and body don’t work like a light switch. I can’t turn my physical attraction on and off like that. Personally, I’ll take a woman in a skimpy bikini any day. It does so much more for the imagination.

In your pics from Greece and your avatar, you look quite different.

Yes, I know. I weighed myself today and I have now lost 27Kg. I want to loose at least 15 more.