Does liking a TS make you Gay ??????????????

Any boy who's been born and grew up to be taught, and know, that it's women that he's supposed to love, and lust for, then turns and realizes that his needs and wants can't be encased in what he's been used to, can't be called anything else than who he has always been.

When that same boy learns to fully accept and stand up to the fact that he has a different preference from the majority, and deals with his preference with Respect and Love... then that does not make him anything else other than.... a MAN.

Peace and Love Y'all!

B.

Dam, that was deep V. I feel you on that.

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hello guys.... i dont think so if the guy be with a ladyboy tgirl ts is become a gay.. afew guys become a guy because i think they are gay since before and they try to express their feelings thats why they become a gay but thats not the point... i mean " straight guy is a straight guy"

*takes deep breath*

When a person's brain sex does not match their physiological counter part, you get transgender-ism. A ladyboy's mind set is no different to that of a female's. It's only their bodies that bear the male legacy. And anyone with half a brain will tell you that the mind (and heart/soul if you like) is what dictates a person's demeanor/behavior.
So, attraction to ladyboys/transsexuals is no more 'homosexual' than being turned on by a chick wearing a strap-on dildo!

For someone to truly accept a transsexual as a person in their own right (something that must be done in order to find love) they must first accept that fact of their feminism. Being 'gay' just doesn't even come into the equation when you think about it with an open and educated mind.

YOU ARE GAY.

Without reading other comments, I don't consider man as gay if he is attracted to ladyboys or TS. Ladyboys, TS or tgirls always feel that they are girl and wanting to be looking like a female. If a man sees her as a female without any problem about her body then he is not a gay. Rather, he is a real strong man who is not coward to express his attraction and feelings to someone no matter what gender or orientation he or she has.

For me, a ladyboy is soft and a real man is a strong tough man. Like a woman, a ladyboy only want a lover who can fight for her without a fear to face other's negative views.

To add, I grew up studying with both male and female classmates. I have been closed to females rather than males. In elementary, my friends were all females but not during my high schools and up to present. Boys truly are confused to make friends to someone like us but sometimes they forget it as they make friends to the group and not to the individual characteristics. It is confusing but it is due to our culture and I have lived my life accepting it.

it is common to us especially to boys to say that someone who is coward is a gay. It is maybe a universal stereotype that a man who lacks courage is gay and weak. Also, a man is a gay if he is afraid to court a woman.

Ladyboys are gay but not because of the situations above. a ladyboy is a female who is trapped into a man's body. The word gay can make a person feel down but never to a person who believes in his/herself and do the best to find the happiness he/she needs in life.

As I said before, a man who is not afraid to express his feelings to anybody he loves is a strong,tough, man.

Well Im with ya Im male and very state but TGirls do it for me Im not interested Im female relationship only with tgirl dose that male me gay..

I'm glad to see this topic pop back up. I think it is important to reaffirm the biologically set (born male, stays male or born female, stays female) that their is nothing out of the ordinary to appreciate the opposite gender. I am NOT saying that their is anything wrong with people who do identify as queer or gay, but I am saying that it is more normally justifiable for a biological male to be attracted to something that is feminine, or female. You could reverse that for biological females being attracted to something masculine, or male.

So no, NOT GAY!
I am in the same situation. I am a man without question. I act as such and no one I know questions my taste in women. On many occasions I have shown other male friends of mine pictures of my transgendered friends I find particularly attractive and they all agree with me on how beautiful they are. The only thing they don't know is what gender they were originally born with, HAHA!

If anyone has ever looked at a picture of a transgendered individual and found them attractive before finding out how they were born, then they would have to be gay if they want to attempt to call us gay as well. I say its just our personal nature doing its part.

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I've pondered on this numerous times, from my perspective I am not attracted to men, or the masculine form, I am however attracted to women, or the female form, the curves of a woman, the femininity are what attract me, what they have in their underwear is beside the point in first attraction.

Moving on to the contents of the underwear: I have had relationships with natal women and with mixed success, the mysteries of the clitoris have eluded me unfortunately, whereas I do know how a penis works so I can give my transgender girlfriend a huge amount pleasure that I seem to be unable to do in some natal women.

Ultimately it comes down to finding that perfect match where you can both enjoy a sexual relationship, and if it means that your perfect woman has a penis, then so be it!

Pete