Does liking a TS make you Gay ??????????????

helllo all im a newbie from Ireland

basically im a straight male , in saying that i love women alottttt and dont fancy men at all , no tendencies etc , basically i wouldnt let a man near me

but i like Ts women ( sorry if thats the wrong term ) because they have something extra , and in general if im honest i like sex and like trying anything so i have a dirty nature

so i like femine ts women who look the part

just wondering whats other peoples thoughts on this , anybody in the same boat as me ???

straight but like ts femine women ????

who cares if it DOEs make you gay?

Of course Irish mate, at the first time you kiss a tgirl then you be gay.
Well, to be serious, who says you are gay just because you like (love) a tgirl? Who can say something like that? Nobody can say something like that if he knows nothing about tgirls. Only because you sleep with a girl that actually was born as boy is no reason to say that you are gay.
Think about mate; who tells us how we have to practise sex? Do not care what other people say.

You are not gay Hon, in no way. Enjoy every single minute with a tgirl and treat her like a woman.
Grace

Theirs nothing wrong having relationship with a tgirl but theirs are a lot of consequences that you have to face through. Don't hide your feeling or else you might regret it.

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Home Staying

Liking / Loving TG girls dosnt "make you" gay... there are so many factors that you need to decide upon before you can claim to be.

Psycologically speaking its not the person but the form of attraction that will aid in this decision, what is it that you are attracted to in a TG person? Female form or the extra apendage? What is your sexual orientation, passive, active, dominatnt, submissive, top or bottom?

I believe that you can love the person you are with without worrying about how they were born, if she walks, talks, thinks and acts like a girl full time then to me she is as much a girl as some one born that way... but if she is more interested in being dominant or in penetrating you then she is not (sorry if I offend any one it is not my intent), if she assumes the role of the girl fully this wont be an issue at all... in the end you dont really choose who you are attracted to... if you love her be with her, but as has been stated you will need to be pretty strong mentally and some times physically when you choose to be with her... treat her well and dont play games, after all she is human too...

Good luck...

RL

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RomanticLover…

Love comes, Love goes, but it never owns...

Never be ashamed of what is in your heart

Let's see, in my opinion you have to be sincere on yourself about what you want or expect; i. e., if you are looking for a love lasting relationship or just for sex. The "gay" or "homosexual", "heterosexual", etc... words are preconceived terms used to label people regarding their sexual tendence, but every single human being in this world can be more prone to feel attraction for each of the two biological genres (male-female) in a certain degree; obviously it depends on many things and circumstances during life, and unfortunately the western dominant culture doesn't let us choose the various gradients/tendencies so we're taught during our childhood to repress some of those natural feelings and head towards a single way.

The background that I understand in your words is that you're terrified to be labeled as "gay". If you want to have a sincere relationship with someone I didn't care much about what other people think or say, but of course it may turn very confuse if it's about family issues for instace. In that case, I'd try to be sure that's what I want, go ahead and cope with the difficulties; going against the stream is never easy. If your case is that you just feel sexual attraction to transsexuals or are still not sure about your preferences the best option is to try it, there are many professional people that can help you; this is better than breaking the heart of a tgirl. But have in mind, when you know exactly what you want go for it without hesitation; that'd be the best way.

what n onsens is that RL? Do you really think, a tgirl that fucks her man is no girl? Look at me and then tell me that I'm no girl. BTW, I also like to penetrate my boyfriend now and then. You sound like people in the Middle-Age.
Grace

Grace, sorry if I offended, not my intent just sharing an opinion, as you would be aware not all tg are into that, and as there is a little thing called context and the like here you might want to re read the post before you go off half cocked...

No ill feelings... no offence meant... just trying to supply more than one view of the world... no one person has all th answers no one person can claim the views of all...

Respectfully

RL

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RomanticLover…

Love comes, Love goes, but it never owns...

Never be ashamed of what is in your heart

Irish, as I understand it sexuality (like many apsects of our psychology) exists on a spectrum. At one end (let's say 100) is the absolutely no doubt about it straight person, and at the other end (0) is the stupendously indomitable gay person. It's really silly to think that most people are going to be either just 0 or 100.

Realistically we all fall somewhere in between, and it can change from moment to moment. Over time sure you can generate an average number to represent yourself, but then that becomes confining. I would suggest what others have and tell you not to worry. It doesn't matter what it is about a given TS that turns you on, just find what you like and go for it; let the Psychologists worry about who is defined as what.