FEMININE & TRANSSEXUAL LOOK ( is this important ? )

I did read this thread and was wondering about so much pessimism relating to the look.
I mean, all tgirls know from the very beginning they aren't genetic women. So what do they expect of the nature? The nature did want they are tgirls; neither women nor men. That point they have to accept.
On the other hand, many tgirls, especially Asian tgirls but also some Westerner tgirls, have a real beautiful look (sometimes better than genetic women). And here, it is not of importance whether they look like genetic women or they look like tgirls.
If I be looking for a tgirl then I have to be clear in my mind that I get no genetic woman, I want to be with a tgirl. And a man who is really into tgirls, that man likes the special look of tgirls.
By the way, there is a huge number of German women that look also really manly.
Regarding Shiera and her problem I think, if I watch at her photos so I can just say... wow, she looks quite beautiful. She has a nice body and a pretty face. (wished I could find someone who looks like she) So what does she want more?
- Sorry to all the other nice girls in here because I mentioned that so frankly but I just know photos of Shiera. -
However I understand what is her problem. But I don't think most men who are into tgirls prefer a feminine look. It is rather they don't want to have a real relationship with a tgirl. Most of them go off in search of adventure. That's all they want. Look around and tell me how many men want to have a tgirl as their life-partner. If I look around, then I see just adventurer who are looking for sex and fun, and for that they don't need a tgirl with that perfect feminine look. Yes, it would be perfect if they meet a tgirl who looks like a princess but if they don't have, it does no matter.
However if we are honest, so it is not only the look that makes they feel embarrass. To me it is very clear, these men have a general problem to hanging out with a tgirl in the public area. They feel all the way embarrass if they have a TS on their side in any place.
I say that because I saw it often, and also I read it often in another Forum. There, men write about their holiday trip, about their experiences with tgirls in Thailand, Philippiens or anywhere. Men write down what they do, how often and how long they it do. Sometimes it sounds almost like a competition. Also, many men write about their "walk of shame" through the town with their sweetheart back to the hotel.

On the other hand I understand the wishes of all girls too. All girls want to look beautiful as same as other people too. No one like to look ugly, neither men nor tgirls. Also I don't believe that any girl want to get in contact with a ugly guy. Therefore I don't agree with that point, a beautiful look isn't important. In no way. A beautiful look is important because the first of all what we make out is the look of the other one. At first we put our eye on his appearance and if we have the feeling... wow, the other one pleases me, then we want to come in touch with him. But in that moment we still know nothing about the other one. We don't know, he is a bad guy or good guy. The knowledge about the other one comes later. Then if we get to know each other, then if we know about the other one and if we know what's going on inside the other one, then we can say what is more important... beauty or heart.
That applies to girls and guys.

Many TS believe that if they don't look like 100% foolproof women then they won't find love and a partner.

as for me I just worried if people could tell Im a TS.. since I'm very tall as for asian girl, 5'10", i think that what makes people here could tell I'm a TS.. I wish i am petite..

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lovingsoul...
bad experienced I take it as a good lessons,
good times I saved it as good memories..

love, peace and happiness..

I would give anything to look like you LS.

ouch thanks Mame, but guys prefer petite girl i guess.. and petite more passable too.. but if im out of malaysia(western countries), i guess people cant tell I'm a TSbut still wish im petite..hehe

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lovingsoul...
bad experienced I take it as a good lessons,
good times I saved it as good memories..

love, peace and happiness..

Fonseca , do not misunderstanding me ..
i have no problem with my look .. i love my transsexual look .. and i'm proud of it .. i want people to know that i am a transsexual .. so , any men who feel humiliate being with me in public , forget about to meet the real shiera .. just meet shiera the whore in room , then .. as simple as this .. la la la la

i really do not care about what people think about me .. simple word for them .. " PLEASE MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS " .. if anybody cause me any offend , im going to fuck them and kick their ass .. i will .. hehehe

ps : Fonseca , are you admiring me ?? what i want ? i assume that my profiles did clearly told you what i'm looking for ( where ever sites you have found me ) .. its up to men now to chose either shiera the whore or the real shiera .. 2 characters with 2 different of searching purpose .. you know what i mean , dont you !!

Mame, Lovingsoul, Shiera
Each of you is beautiful. It does not matter how tall you are, whether you are petite or not, or lack curves. What makes you special is that you are how you are 24/7.
Just wish I could meet and chat with all you lovely girls in person....

P...

oz3male, thanks

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lovingsoul...
bad experienced I take it as a good lessons,
good times I saved it as good memories..

love, peace and happiness..

Maybe you are right, but I don't believe in it. In Germany we say, "on each pot fits a lid": And that works in the most cases. On the other hand I understand each TS when she is 100% intent on her feminine appearance and beauty. But as I noticed, there are also a lot they don't do it .

Of course Lovingsoul, girls or women are mostly petite in Asia. So if people see a tall girl there, then they think at a tgirl. Westerner think the same if they see an Asian girl, and mostly it applies to them. However I don't agree if you say, men prefer only petite girls. That's not true. What men prefer is very different. Some petite men like tall girls (maybe because of their long legs), some tall men like petite girls (maybe it reminds him at his daughter) and other ones like almost the same size as they themselve. Also there are men who prefer girls a bit more chubby. That's really up to each guys liking. And on the other hand Lovingsoul, look at the most Westler tgirls/women how they look like, then you will know, as nice you look.