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Would you marry a TG if the law permitted?
Poll ended at Fri Mar 20, 2009 2:39 pm
Yes 87%  87%  [ 7 ]
No 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Not sure 12%  12%  [ 1 ]
I am only looking for dating or sex 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Total votes : 8
 
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 Post subject: Genuine Love Match site exclusively for Genuine TG's
 Post Posted: Fri Mar 06, 2009 2:39 pm 
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Greetings earthlings. Everywhere I look, the TG or LB sites are commercial, promoting TG's and LB's for dating and sex. The photos on them are mainly of sexual nature. pandering to the flesh market. Not once have I come across a decent site that is dedicated to finding love for the TG's.

Does anyone know? I am not a TG but I am curious.

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Basil


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 Post Posted: Fri Mar 06, 2009 7:23 pm 
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http://www.meetladyboy.com seems serious, a few escorts on there, but overall it seems OK. I haven't paid for premium service yet, I'm a bit cautious after joining another one that seemed to be populated mainly by transvestites, crossdressers and all manner of weird people.

It's so difficult trying to meet a genuine TS looking for a genuine relationship, never mind I'll keep trying.

Pete


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 Post Posted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 12:05 pm 
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Pete X wrote:
It's so difficult trying to meet a genuine TS looking for a genuine relationship, never mind I'll keep trying.

Pete




Hey...we're out there...you just gotta find us


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 Post Posted: Sun Mar 15, 2009 12:02 pm 
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ninajmartin wrote:
Hey...we're out there...you just gotta find us


Indeed!! :)

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 Post Posted: Sun Mar 15, 2009 12:10 pm 
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Hi Basil,

there are few other decent sites, just google and sure you will find it..

about photos, i would say for some people maybe by showing some skin, their curvy body, or muscles, or as you said sexual nature is how they want to attract people to visit their profile?? ;)

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 Post Posted: Mon Mar 16, 2009 9:22 am 
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After a while you learn to spot the ones seeking sexual thrills, and the ones selling sex, but it can cost a lot of money signing up for the wrong sites.

I was on TS Dating, it seemed to be inhabited by men with fetishes for womens clothing, and the TS girls were drastically outnumbered by them. Even when I found a TS girl they seemed to shy away when approached, I was beginning to wonder if they really wanted a relationship at all, or just wanted to meet other TS.

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 Post Posted: Sun Apr 26, 2009 7:26 am 
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It can be quite disheartening looking for a genuine TS relationship in a sea of fetishists and money grabbers, I was recently put off by a Philippine tgirl, she didn't take long to mention the cost of her studies, which I ignored, then a couple of weeks later it was her house that burned down, and she actually asked outright for money. I was genuinely concerned, but the golden rule of that site is 'never send money' and I don't really want to get sucked into a con again thanks.

I'm beginning to think the only way to meet a tgirl is to get out there and wine and dine one, at least I can see for myself if they are trying to pull a fast one. I'm now concentrating on Asia for my life partner, after a few bad experiences in the UK I have come to the conclusion that a.) They accept their gender confusion earlier than westerners, and live the life from an early age. b.) The third sex is more widespread in Asia than in western countries. c.) The whole third sex thing is more widely accepted in Asia, and I understand it is officially recognised in India.

Does anyone know the situation on marrying a tgirl in Asian countries, here in the UK a tgirl can get her passport and birth certificate altered to female and a proper marriage can therefore follow, but what is the situation in Asian countries?

Pete


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 Post Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2009 9:36 am 
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ermmm Pete, I hope you dont mind i share something from my point of view from your conclusion...

(sorry bout my english, I will try my best to explain in clear n simple way)

a.) They accept their gender confusion earlier than westerners, and live the life from an early age.

- i would say some (westerners/asians) aware of about something different with them, it just that maybe life circumstances/situations that hold them from transition. I would say, maturity of mind and life experiences would give much helps during transition..

from my observations, atleast amongst asians tgirls are, i could say quite a big number of transitions influenced by group of friends they mixed with.. yes, the feminin part already in them, by being in the group, sees other tgirls in a nicely transformation would make them eager to hv early transition without a professional advice. And some eagerly to wanted to have sexual experiences with men, some wanted to look as feminine as shortest time they could, some wanted to earn money from it, some wants attention from public. i would say its more like a competition among them..

And from my own experienced, I only start my transition at my age 24, only after i feel secure/ready about my life.. ie, completed my diploma(bcoz, not tgirls allowed in uni or collages here).. hv enough money to support myself at early stage of my transition.. talk openly about transition with my close friends, so that they aware of it and asked for their opinions.. etc etc

ps. sadly we dont hv professional advice here for transition, most tgirls here are self medicated.. but there are a few open-minded clinics n doctors who would give advices about it..

b.) The third sex is more widespread in Asia than in western countries.

hmmm.. as i mentions above, maybe here in asia, tgirls like to be in group thats why they seems more here.. or maybe they are openly on public and active on net searching for partners..

c.) The whole third sex thing is more widely accepted in Asia, and I understand it is officially recognised in India.

I would say not really.. depends which asia countries u mean.. maybe thailand, philipine, singapore, india.. but sadly not my country (malaysia) any malaysian would like to comment on this? shiera?

ok, about marriage in asian countries.. as far as I know, none of any asian countries hv such recognition..

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 Post subject: Re: Genuine Love Match site exclusively for Genuine TG's
 Post Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 12:53 pm 
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Any date sites generally will yield some results. Just enter 'male seeking male' as your search criterion (*most non dedicated TG sites don't have a TG search filter... yet!) and read their profiles carefully. Most girls (or their managers/pimps rather :roll: ) state clearly if they're just their for escort service et cetera.

I find the likes of thailovelinks.com and any given number of those other 'Cupid' sites quite good. And of course you can search dedicated transgender date sites also. Google is your friend. ;)


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 Post Posted: Thu Jul 16, 2009 3:32 pm 
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ermm... any suggestions of tg dating websites? or one that tg friendly perhaps?

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