I'm really really anxiously

Hi to all girls in here. Now I wanna set my first post because I have a problem and maybe somebody of the girls can help me or has a few tipps.
Firstly, please don't think bad about me but I say it honestly that I'm a very active girl with regard to sexual things. However I'm not a pro, in no way but it belongs to my life like bread and salt. So I always have enjoyed having sex with men so much and I never got any problems with getting an erection. Quite the opposite. When I fell in love with a man or I felt attracted to a man and we had done it together, then I always got hard; really hard; and it could last all night till he was limp again. So I can just say; my sex-life has been always fulfilled and wonderful erotically. The men I was with were contentedly with me all the time and I myself was always very happily with that too.
So what is my problem? Now, since about 5 months I have a boy-friend and I really love this guy so much. And I know he loves me too and he is a great lover. However, although he turns me on and he gets me really horny but I get not hard if we have sex together. I don't know what happened, anyway that happens for 5-6 weeks now. My bf does everything what he can do with me and I must say I get always extremely horny but it doesn't works. No matter if he is kissing me, stroking my body or licking and sucking my 'little Grace'... yes, I feel horny but I get not hard. My penis is swelling just a little bit but then he keeps in that condition or gets slackly. For that reason I'm really really worried and anxiously now. I don't know what can I do against it. Anyway I wished it would be like before.

So is anybody out there who can give me some advices what I can do?

Based on what you have said, it sounds physiological. I would go to a doctor. Did you change your hormones recently?

Hi Oztgirl, thanks for the reply. No I didn't change my hormones.

Go see a doctor just to be on the safe side.

Heh girls, I have to tell you nice news... oh my God, I'm still so excited and blissfully happy because of that. I cannot believe that nightmare now is over. Anyway I think I have vanquished my problem, and now I'm a full functional woman again. What happened is, last night my sweetheart took me with all his love and lots of tenderness. He made me sexually aroused and I felt horny like a virgin so that my penis got rock-hard again, and the stiffness kept up for a good while. But the best of all is, I had a wonderful wet climax again.
Oh girls, what have I missed that feeling to be a woman, and now I'm so happy. So really happy. Also I'm very grateful that my man had so much patience with me in the last weeks and got me to be able his wife again. Oh I love him so much. Thank you darling.

do u really need the errection if you are the passive part?

Who tells you, girls are always the passive part during a sex session?
Maybe you never had sex with a TS.

Not all TS are passive during sex. It comes down to personal preference.

M.

I don't think I could do it if either me or my boyfriend were passive when having sex. Just having sex to please your partner is not enough. Good for you Grace, its great you're so happy again!

I detest penetrating and have significant difficulty doing so. I have stopped seeing guys because they wanted it. I love being penetrated. Having a man inside you with his arms around you is a wonderful experience. I can still orgasm like this by manual stimulation. I wouldn't change this preference for anything.

M.