Is this love?

My friend was asking me questions about her relationship with a foreign man. They have been communicating for a few years and they have been together for a couple of times. Her friend is a foreigner and due to distance they have little chances to spend time together. She has no choice but to agree with what her boyfriend believes, friendship is better as it lasts longers. Before her, that friend has found friends and he is still communicating with them but not as active as they are. She accepts it but there are times that she gets jealous and have fear. Her friend is a good man and he is helping her when she has problems. She knew that friend is the same to his other friends.

I am not very good in giving advices and I am posting this now to ask help to those who have views about my friend's situation. Again, is this love? She is wondering and I want to help her to be more confident.

Thanks

Hi Jessica

OK first of all by 'love' - do you mean:
a) I care about you a lot (like family and close friends)
b) i want to be in a relationship with you (i want to be your best friend, lover and live with you as my life partner)

Also i have to ask you if 'friendship' involved any previous sexual relationship?
Apologies, i don't mean to offend you by asking, but if this happens it tends to complicate the meaning of a 'friendship'.

What is your filipino friend really looking for - a friendship or a relationship?

SlimJim x

Hi:

I am involved with a filipina and we have both agreed to be faithful and loyal to each other. So I do n ot chat with any of the other ladies I met while looking for a good match for me. I have met and speak with alll her family members. We behave as if we are married. We are friends, lovers and plan on spending our life together, so to me you are only looking for trouble if you continue to chat with in my case other ladies.

The reason I joined this site was not to find a lover, but to look for ways to get my lady here. And travel advice, etc.

Bill

Bill