my very much sad story..........

I am sorry to hear about your negative experiences but not all men are liars. Some of us are actually looking to find a real relationship but any kind of long distance relationship is always going to be difficult. First is the trust factor where you have to trust the other person is telling you the truth and unfortunately many times they are not. If all a guy is interested in is having you show yourself naked well those are the easy ones because you can tell very fast what they are interested in and send them flying ! Don't get me wrong, I love sex, but I want it as part of an overall relationship with love involved because I can tell you from experience that nothing is better than "making love" when you love the other person. But getting back to the long distance relationship, its a tough road from both sides because you have to get to know the person to see if 1) they are for real, 2) if they are looking for the same things you are, 3) if you are both compatible and in this exploration one or both are very likely to develop feelings and get attached so if it does'nt work out there is going to be pain. unfortunately there is no way around it, the road to love is mined with pain bombs and only the extremely lucky will avoid getting hurt in the search but life without love is empty so we continue forward always hoping to find that happiness.