my very much sad story..........

well girl, I can tell you the same from the other side, especially Filipinas
Cheers

rule No:1 all men are liars.
rule No:2 refer to rule No: 1

no seriously I feel where your coming from, I've had my share of men fucking with my feelings and taking advantage or my Tgirl disadvantage. I've put up with some very bad treatment from "tranny chasers". Having said that I have reached a point in my life where I wont sleep with anyone until I'm sure its me they want and not the sex toy. It's hard because we sometimes seem to be getting the dregs of male society. I am a half glass full girl so I never give up hope.

OMG, I dissolve myself in tears if I read that bull-shit. Maybe you ask her why she has shown herself naked or her tits or anything. Maybe you ask her why she want to meet explicit a western guy and not a Filippino. If you dont know the answer, then ask me smart aleck. I dont think you ever have met any ladyboy in BKK, Pattaya, Phuket, Cebu, Manila or somewhere. If yes, then would not write such bull-shit. And, if you think that you be dregs of male society, well then, thats your visibility. Only your own visibility.
Cheers

first of all i had a filipino bf before we lived in for 4 years and he just played with my feelings and i can feel that its better to look for a foreigner bf rather than a filipino....and im not asking for a western guy.. im looking for a foreigner bf no matter from where he is as long as he has a good intention. and one thing more i already accepted the fact that its my fault to show my body to those fucking guys who fooled me and from then on i learned my lessos it will never ever happened again...

Men are jerks, all of them.
Yes, I am a male and I know men are jerks.
I was raised to respect people for who they are and not judge based on looks, reputation or other factors.
And the best thing my mum taught me:
"Never see anyone male, female, or otherwise as some sex toy or play thing"

That said, where I am from in NSW you are stereotyped, and get a rep the day you are born or your first day living here. And its very hard here for me....due to homophobes.
Guys here all that mentallity of:
Two girls together....hot. Two guys.....wrong.

Ok, I am so tired I managed to veer of the topic.....my bad.

But I will say this:
When it comes to relationships.....no one is truely perfect or innocent.
Cos I know that girls play games just like guys too....but its less obvious and not so mean as guys.
Both sides play games....its just that guys do it much more.

But then again, I am 23 and know next to nothing about many things, so what do I know?

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QUOTH THE RAVEN, "NEVERMORE"

do you really believe what you try to say us? your explanation is lame, very lame.

yeah, thats pretty good but maybe you have forgotten that you as well as your "sistas" are actually male too.

I am sorry to hear about your negative experiences but not all men are liars. Some of us are actually looking to find a real relationship but any kind of long distance relationship is always going to be difficult. First is the trust factor where you have to trust the other person is telling you the truth and unfortunately many times they are not. If all a guy is interested in is having you show yourself naked well those are the easy ones because you can tell very fast what they are interested in and send them flying ! Don't get me wrong, I love sex, but I want it as part of an overall relationship with love involved because I can tell you from experience that nothing is better than "making love" when you love the other person. But getting back to the long distance relationship, its a tough road from both sides because you have to get to know the person to see if 1) they are for real, 2) if they are looking for the same things you are, 3) if you are both compatible and in this exploration one or both are very likely to develop feelings and get attached so if it does'nt work out there is going to be pain. unfortunately there is no way around it, the road to love is mined with pain bombs and only the extremely lucky will avoid getting hurt in the search but life without love is empty so we continue forward always hoping to find that happiness.