Straight or Gay?

hi there

Twice this year I have picked up a guy off the internet and Had him over for sex. Both especially wanted a t-girl, so I looked at it as my honor to give them what they wanted and that just added to the pleasure for me. Both were the sweetest and nicest people too. One of them wanted very active sex with each of us doing the other, and the other just wanted to suck my cock and wanted no reciprocation. (is this too graphic?).
Anyway both of these guys consider themselves straight, and even made it clear to me when I made the appointment with them that they were straight. It was important for them that I know that.

Isn't it funny how they like to reassure us that they are straight. I think they are really assuring themselves!

As for my sexuality, even tho' I have sex with men on occasion, my favorite lovemaking sessions are with women. I really like the smooth and hairless landscape, and all the fascinating and lovely parts. I love all the dips and curves and lumps and clefs and smells, too. So I guess I am bisexual with a lesbian leaning

It surprises me how common lesbianism is within the TS community. I have met many lesbian transsexuals.

I am the complete opposite. I love men. I like their hard and hairy bodies. I like the feeling of hardness (which I equate with strength). I like their personalities and their sense of naughtiness.

I actually remember the moment when this fascination with men started as a teenager. I was surrounded by quite oafish men when I was younger and never found them the least bit appealing.

I was watching a movie called Lady Chatterly's Lover. There is a nude scene were the man is showering naked and Lady Chatterly is hiding in the bushes watching him. I remember this as the first time I was unequivocally in pure lust with a man. I had never really 'noticed' men before that. I have found that physical type incredibly attractive ever since. I really liked the contrast between physical strenght, masculinity and tenderness. Three qualities that I am incredibly drawn to in a man and are unfortunately missing in many men.

Here is a clip from the movie: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hap5YtQifCI

M.

I suppose that I am gay. I need to be in a lesbian relationship, but I have been with three men. They were "straight", smaller boned and not much hair. I am happy with a female, whether she is pre or post op or biological. There is no difference to me.

Okay....my two cents worth...I consider myself to be straight...completely. In my 45 years I have had sexual relations with maybe fifty partners...all women. Last year I met a very beautiful TS girl who could easily be a supermodel. She was feminine in ever way, in her looks, manners, voice and temperment. She had been on hormones for many years and her genitalia was so small, it was hardly noticeable. I considered her to be a woman in every sense of the word that has importance. We had a great relationship and are still close friends. In bed she was all woman and took great pains to try to make sure I never even saw her 'extra bits,' which I never asked her to do, but they seemed to embarrass her, so I always pretended not to notice. I loved her as a woman. It does strike me as strange sometimes that I could have such feelings for someone who was not borne a woman, but even in my imagination I could never associate her with any form of maleness. So, for me it is possible to have a great relationship with a TS and remain straight.

Unfortunately you can't explain that to some people. Even women can be stubborn on that issue.

M.

Yes Mame, I have known a few women who would be considered liberal in there thinking, EXCEPT when it came to TS. All of them are quite horrified by them, and one of them actually referes to them as deviants who would have there sexual way with anyone given the chance.

No matter how hard I try to explain to her about them, the more horrified she acts.

P...

That sounds like the ramblings of someone who has discovered a (ex)lover has had a fling with a ts or found ts porn or something. Maybe even a transvestite lover. Some TV's give TS a bad name especially as some TV's think they are TS.

Either that or the only images she has seen of transsexuals are as prostitutes.

As far as "having their way with anyone". I would think the opposite is true. Many transsexuals are quite picky I think. I wouldn't go out with any of the swines I see many young women dating these days. I also think young Australian women are incredibly shallow compared to a generation ago. It's all big cocks and hard abs. A good sign that the divorce rate will soar as they all settle down - once the abs have faded and the cock aint so hard anymore there are going to be a lot of discontented women! Serves themselves right.

Sorry for the vitriol. Not feeling very compassionate at the moment.