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TG's; You like your man hard or soft?

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TG's; You like your man hard or soft?

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JJHunt

Post subject: TG's; You like your man hard or soft?

Posted: Thu Jul 03, 2008 6:32 pm

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I know this sounds like a bad topic but it's not as it sounds. This is for the TG females, but as always everyone is welcome to comment.

Girls, I have been thinking and have run into a bit of a problem lately. I realized that many (G)girls are confused by me because I can change back and forth depending on the situation, So I want to hear a few opinions please. Do you think your guy should be 100% macho man with very little feelings and be aggressive in conflict? Or do you think the guy should always be sensitive and aware of feelings around him and be passive in conflict?

I am very confused because I have been praised and condemned for being both a bad a$$ and a good guy. Is there not supposed to be a combination in us? Thanks for reading!

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Fonseca

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Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 12:48 pm

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is it just for girls? :lol:

Grace

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Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 1:47 pm

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I like him macho but also tender, sensitive and with feelings. So actually I like both.

TS_Shiera

Post subject: Re: TG's; You like your man hard or soft?

Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 1:57 pm

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to be 100% macho , u will have a high level of ego ..
being soft is doesn't mean that u are not macho
every single human has hard and soft ways .. it could be external and internal ..

why they are soft , because they have feeling and emotion
why they are hard , because they want to look like a 'real men ' / defensive / protective / to be strong

hard and soft is the balancing in our life that we need it to make ourself complete .. the problem is , how u manage your hard and your soft way .. where and when u should use them ..

don't ever think that a romantic guy can't be macho
and sometimes , a macho guy unable to be romantic

i want my man to have a soft heart inside and be hard for protection .. hehehe

i bet every single girls dream to have this type of man ..

Grace

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Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 2:03 pm

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TS_Shiera, you know about macho? In my homeland almost all men are macho, that is common for Latin America. And my dear, a real macho is romantic too.

oztgirl

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Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 2:04 pm

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I like my men with full frontal lobotomies and no power of speech. That may however be on account of the fact that I have a very low opinion of men at the moment.