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TS_Shiera
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Post subject: Posted: Tue May 05, 2009 1:11 pm |
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well USMale , if you never intend to get marry to a trans ( or to have a same sex marriage in your life ) you better leave this topic .. there's still many topics here where you can commented on ..
i believe this topic was discussed to those who are planning or ready or intend to perform a same sex marriage ..
NO OFFENCE PLEASE !!
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TS_Shiera
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Post subject: Re: Re: Posted: Tue May 05, 2009 1:52 pm |
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TS_Shiera Thanks very much for the good wishes, and I hope you meet the guy of your dreams too, but I hope you're having better luck than I am. I recently started IM'ing a ladyboy, and it wasn't long before all the alarm bells started to ring, and today she asked if I wanted cam sex, and would I help her pay her mothers hospital bills, just $25. At least I'm getting better at reading the hidden message, but I despair at ever meeting a genuine ladyboy looking for love. I'm coming to the conclusion that I'll have to travel to SE Asia and meet girls in person, but where do you meet ladyboys, other than the ones working the bars.
Pete[/quote]
Your much welcome Pete .. me having a better luck than you do ? I hope i do have the luck with me now and currently waiting for a miracle to happens ! Been waiting for a very long time and also been cheated and fooled by few mens with promises and swears .. Yet , this make me getting more stronger and smarter .. Thanks for that with no regret ..
It was a shame when 2 people trying to exploit each other in a way to find LOVE .. Anyway , it's really really hard to find honest person nowadays as many were living in charades .. Can't blame the human nature though .. Sorry for your story .. i heard that from few mens too ..
I believe there are many ts became an escort because they were scared to get hurt again or to get fooled .. But asking a money while you describe your self as a love seeker is wrong .. In the other hand , if you are looking for just fun or one night stand but claimed that you are a love seeker is wrong too ..
I wish you will find one soon !! GOOD LUCK
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izzylicious
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Post subject: Re: MARRIAGE...is it possible???? Posted: Tue May 05, 2009 6:19 pm |
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Hi Shiera, Very well said.. Every posts and comments you have are really full of info. and helps everyone. I just hope we can get updates from transsexuals who have actually been married or had real experience of arranging marriage papers and documents. It would be quite encouraging to have info. from them.. Or maybe you we can start a post that asks if there are TS here that have been married.. Keep it up Shiera,.. Cheers
_________________ " To be TRUSTED is greater compliment than being LOVED" " Woman is man who believes she is.."
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USMale
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Post subject: Re: Posted: Tue May 05, 2009 9:27 pm |
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TS_Shiera wrote: well USMale , if you never intend to get marry to a trans ( or to have a same sex marriage in your life ) you better leave this topic .. there's still many topics here where you can commented on ..
i believe this topic was discussed to those who are planning or ready or intend to perform a same sex marriage ..
NO OFFENCE PLEASE !! NO OFFENSE TAKEN. I think you misunderstand what I have said in my previous posts. I am intimately familiar with the american government and the common law. I merely wanted to point out that since I do have this understanding of how this country operates under the common law that I do not have to ask permission to marry anyone of my choosing and neither will they need to ask permission. Most people are programmed into the belief they are required to ask permission. I am not one of those people. I am not sure how you concluded that I am not here for marriage but rest assured you are in error. (No offense) izzylicious wrote: Wow .. the discussions is getting hotter..lol anyway, hope we can here again from rickynyc if he have found the answer for his question.. RickyNYC please give us update , this is really an interesting topic.. cheers. I merely wanted to demonstrate to those who are interested that if their countries are formed under the common law they do not need permission to get married. They can marry without permission. I would have thought that would have been met with appreciation in a thread asking if it is possible and I come up with an answer that is a resounding yes? ~sigh~
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TS_Shiera
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Post subject: Re: MARRIAGE...is it possible???? Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 12:51 pm |
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izzylicious wrote: Hi Shiera, Very well said.. Every posts and comments you have are really full of info. and helps everyone. I just hope we can get updates from transsexuals who have actually been married or had real experience of arranging marriage papers and documents. It would be quite encouraging to have info. from them.. Or maybe you we can start a post that asks if there are TS here that have been married.. Keep it up Shiera,.. Cheers Hi izzilicious , as a trans we have to help each other unfortunately there are not much of us willing to help one another .. Jealousy and envy happens in our ts world .. Yet i try to help and to share the knowledge that i had for us ( especially for asian trans mostly from Thai , Philip and Indonesia as you guys required a visa to be abroad and i do understand how hard for you guys to get the visa granted .. Unlike us from Malaysia , Singapore and Brunei we doesn't required a visa to be abroad except to State and Canada ).. My advise for asian ts is , trust yourself before you trust somebody else .. love doesn't come easily and be independent is the best way for us .. And yeah , it would be better if we can share this from someone who has been married . What i absolutely sure is the procedure of marriage papers and document were completely complicated for we asian ts .. Few things that must be compliant to the laws .. Anyway , GOOD LUCK TO ALL OF US !!! ppsstt : wish me a very best of luck or pray with me for tomorrow .. I really need a miracle to be happen tomorrow .
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TS_Shiera
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Post subject: Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 1:03 pm |
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No worries USMale i got no offended .. I do understand you said but probably doesn't get your drift or maybe get it wrong .. My mistake and i do apologize .. Anyway say whatever you want to say
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USMale
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Post subject: Re: Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 5:17 pm |
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TS_Shiera wrote: No worries USMale i got no offended .. I do understand you said but probably doesn't get your drift or maybe get it wrong .. My mistake and i do apologize .. Anyway say whatever you want to say Thanks Shiera! Um.......say anything? Like ANYTHING at all???  That could get me in lots of trouble! So did we just kiss and make up? 
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Pete X
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Post subject: Posted: Sat Aug 01, 2009 6:07 pm |
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Good news if you're in Australia, or want to live in Australia (As I do!). Same sex unions are to be given legal recognition, although it does stop short of being same sex marriages, more HERE. Pete
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jadecute
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Post subject: Posted: Mon Nov 16, 2009 4:05 pm |
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hi rick; since i am from philippines... since u wanted to be ur gf filipina to be with you.... i think the best you can do is to apply her for tourist visa. where you can envite her to come and visit your place. with the corresponding supporting letter, that u are enviting her ur friend to visit you. so that during the application is not hard for her to get tourist visa..... and u need to save all ur emails and pictures together.. so that it will support later ur documents... and then u need to go the place in states where same sex marriage is legal... 
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