SEX OR LOVE

I would just like to clarify that is strictly your interpretation of what I said.

YES and Did i said it wrong anyway ? Or you just can't accept the fact

So did you even notice that I complemented you?

My point here being that I did not describe anything that resembled lying, cheating, or that could be construed as "hypocritical" on any level that I am aware of as you contended when you claimed to know what was in my mind.

That was purely your construct.

Maybe my grammar was not clear enough, though I am not sure how I could be more clear.

If your only point is that hypocrites exist, yes of course they do, they exist in all walks of life, as do liars, cheats, crooks, and all other forms of malfeasance. I would never attempt to argue that they didnt.

hhhmmm whatever and have a nice life !!

are you angry with me?

women tend to look for love more than men, in my experience. Men regard TSs as an exotic fuck mostly, and women, few that they are, tend to regard TSs as a bisexual dream. So while I look for that woman who will love me, I also take men occasionally in the hope that maybe I am wrong and I will find a man who will love me too.

So far still looking.

@Virginia87106: I feel the same way, although I'm attracted to men and totally unattracted to women.

I attribute my lack of interest in women to my bad experiences with them.

Who knows...as I heal my psyche, maybe that will change.

I hope you find a wonderful person that will make you happy.

:TGirl51.

Males and females are 'designed' to procreate *(see angle of cervical tract in relation to that of an erect penis as one obvious example), not to necessarily to have satisfying relationships. Hence the truism 'Men are from Mars. Woman are from Venus'.

Males are evolved to interact 'efficiently' with females on a rudimentary physical level only. Human being evolution isn't advanced enough (yet?) to incorporate the male-female psychological dynamic. This is primarily why men find the female 'form' attractive, yet oftentimes cannot hope to relate to the opposite sex on anything deeper than a superficial sexual level.

IMO a male-to-transgender (or FTM transgender-to-female) relationship has a far greater chance of long term success than the traditional 'man and wife' set up. Where once the 'honeymoon' is over, more often than not... oooh boy! Reason being, although a transgender person is one sex in mind and another in body, there still are enough similarities/common ground (more so than with biologically opposite sexes that is) for a relationship to be mutually satisfying. But society's mores dictate that transgender relationships are not 'normal'. So it is hard to assay this assertion given such relationships are the exception rather than the norm.

Another obvious reason for the male-female 'disparity' is the whole 'women nest, guys roost' thing. But that's for another thread/forum.

How does this all relate to love and sex? Well, it's hard for someone to truly love another if they have essentially nothing in common with them... don't you think?

"women nest, guys roost" = womeness gross??

is love really exist?, im talking bout real love!!! hmmm...

which come 1st? love or sex in this modern world?? do love happen before sex or the other way round? hmmm....

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bad experienced I take it as a good lesson,
good times I saved it as good memories..

love, peace and happiness..

It does if you want it to. But the word itself has taken somewhat of a damage of late: 'I love chocolate', 'I love to sleep' and so on. The concept of 'love' should be kept separate and sacrosanct from anything but the interaction of couples. Of course, there is 'love' that relates to your parents, siblings et cetera, but that's obviously a different dynamic altogether and is veering over into the realm of semantics.

"Real (/true) love" is 100%, unadulterated, unwavering trust and confidence in your partner. A trust that is reciprocated.


There is no rule for when sex should happen in relation to love. It's different for different individuals. But in my opinion, COMPATIBILITY is a very important cog in the complex mechanism of love. So it's prudent to know whether you're going to be sexually compatible. After all, if you cannot acquiesce on such a basic physical level, it doesn't bode particularly well for all the other complexities a relationship/love gives rise to.