Hi I'm new to this forum -(profile will soon come)
how do u find the perfect boy/girlfriend?In my opinion in the same way you're looking for new buddies, I think that's the basis. Look for someone who's sharing your interests/likes/dislikes, keep confidence and work! for this blossoming relationship coz
EVERY good relation needs constant work for BOTH partners A relationship develops from "
I just met someone" to "
he/she's my buddy" to "
that's my boy/girlfriend" and finally "
He/she's my lover"
AND! never ever take
ANY relationship for granted wether it's a relation between co-workers, buddies, friends and finally lovers.
Against all "propaganda" roll: and romantic novels : LOVE is neither "heaven sent" nor "heaven given". Love is a small small blossom that develops to a full flower the more
both of you take care of it.
If your question is more:
WHERE to find...:
study the forum - there are plenty tips(right word???), and links, be open to people and when you're fixed on a special gender from a special region think abt the person's background/life-style/personal experiences (for example
I feel a BIG difference between US Americans and Europeans, but that's only
MY opinion.)
Be prepared to/for "bad" experiences like scammers or diggers, but keep in mind that this will happen everywhere and to everyone and it's not fixed on 3rd world partners of either gender.
There are lots of "caucasian folks" (when you're searching for an asian partner) who are only "in the game" when money or "power" is involved...
Think about "our" male polititians or "industry greats" - their spouses are often ways younger and ways more attractive...)
think with and use your "upper" brain and not with the one between your legs...
There is much more to say - it would fill books - so that's my two cents...
Keep on livin'. lovin' and rockin'
Finally and most important:
Be YOURSELF! and don't fake or pretend
