Sweden!

I admit that the tgirl combines some of my kinks, but are they for real or some luxury pleasure toy? At one site I have also aquainted myself with a natural hermaphrodite that is a very nice person. One young person is in the act of transforming and I like her manner of explaining the experience.

I have had quite some conflicts with sexuality but then came to the understanding that it is not an identification, it is something that is possible to do, if the opportunity is given.

A friend of mine went to Thailand and he had a lot of women, I first became quite frustrated. Then I realised that he enjoys a relative luxury level and that this is represented in every country, with escort girls etc.

One's course in life gives advantages and disadvantages. I'd surely welcome the experience but will not sacrifice myself for it. That is: my integrity and life task.

Whith me you may recieve a temporary relation, perhaps friendship in the long run, but not any vain illusions of worldly and final love, only the responsibility before existence that we all share.

Yes tgirls, TS, ladyboy, tgirls, or whatever label you prefer, are very serious and real, they are people first, not any particular gender. It is societies insistence on recognising only two genders that causes problems, although there is movement to recognise the third sex in a few countries.

The whole area between male and female is confusing at times, I grew up in a society that vilified gay relationships, that has changed, at least legally, but even many gays cannot understand a male body with female thought processes, so how can we expect homophobes and bigots to understand. I'm coming to terms with my feelings towards tgirls, I have for many years been attracted to tgirls, but a life time of social conditioning had to be shaken off first, I am now seeking a ladyboy wife, and that hasn't been without issue.

Transgenderism is a minefield of complications for a suitor, as I've found out to my cost. I first signed up to dating site, which seemed to be mainly occupied with fetish crossdressers, more so than real tgirls, yet when I did find an attractive girl I found she wanted love, but not sex. For me, and for most people, a satisfying relationship is based on love and consummated with sexual union, life without sex is as unthinkable as night without day.

I realise that there are a great many people who are asexual, but do they really think that it's possible for a sexual being to live without sex, it's intertwined with love to those of us who enjoy an active sex life, the joy of sexual congress with the one you love is unsurpassed in extremes of inner fulfillment, bringing bodily pleasure to the one you love is the ultimate in the expression of love.

I fully realise that there are many who live with sex and love detached, and those who don't understand love at all, and see sex as their personal pleasure, not a shared experience. There are girls, and I include tgirls, who use their powers of seduction to attract a partner, or a victim, and I've been a victim to this myself, having been trapped by girls who use sex to ensnare, then cut off the supply of sex once the trapped has snapped shut.

Is it too much to ask that a mutual loving relationship be enhanced by sexual congress, if you think you can find a partner who is happy to forgo sexual fulfillment, then be prepared for disappointment. If you're marrying to escape poverty, then be prepared for disappointment, men like me are now very wary of entrapment, having been tricked before.

I'm just a guy with lots of love to give, even though his heart has suffered many breakages, all I ask is love and respect in return.

Pete

Thanks. I thought it was more about an affection for sensual attributes.

Pete as always perfect, in her messages

Pete tries to be understanding in his messages, and freely admits to still be a learner when it comes to transsexuals. I became intrigued and attracted to the idea of tgirls many years ago, but it took until about three years ago before I actually started to seriously look, only to find I had wondered into a minefield.

Anyway, I consider myself to be a straight male, I love the feminine form, I am not attracted to men, but I love the female body with a penis, a perfect combination, and fortunately many TS are happy with that too. Anyway, it looks as though I may have found the girl of my dreams, and I'm in the process of planning a move to the town where she lives, a date and a romantic dinner, days on the beach and maybe one day we will be a couple, and possibly even marry. She is the most attractive and feminine girl I've seen for a long time, she is quite open about her sexuality, she has no desire to go down the route of full SRS, I'm pleased to say.

Girls, let me tell you that full SRS is not necessary, you will find the right man who loves you as you are, keep looking.

Pete

Pete, and whats about children?
I think, every man, should married, and in her family must be a child..
Without kids, life not so interesting.

It`s my IMHO

I'm not into children. I'm more hardcore. Besides it is a duty to preserve the human races against further degeneration. It's a responsibility.

i`am not agree with you!

Isn't the world over populated already?

Anyway, what makes you think that I don't already have children?

Pete

Sorry to be rude. But my crudity contains a higher love. I can not look away from the miseries of this world. I can not trust the concept of "love".