to all TS in this world

be what u are.. dont be shy to choose what have u destined to be.. trying to be a nice person in a nice way..
prove to all man in this world that we can be success without their support..
we need to have a strong in both mentality and physical..
trying to be independent with our own way..
dont just listen to them... they need to listen to us too...
most important is , trust and love your ownself before u trust and love someone else.. especially MAN..
be careful in finding your love.. love will come if its think that u are ready for it and found the right one for your choice and future..
failed in the 1st time doesnt means failed forever..
shine your life with happiness, joy and fun
we as a Transsexual in the whole world sould be in 1 roof by helping each other..not be jealous to each other..

HAVE A NICE FUTURE AND BEST LUCK TO U ALL

warm greetings ,
TS Shiera Halliwell

Indeed!!! Have a nice future and best wishes to you too..

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lovingsoul...
bad experienced I take it as a good lesson,
good times I saved it as good memories..

love, peace and happiness..

Good points, I do believe everyone should be confident in themselves before really getting into relationships. You don't want to be totally subservant to anyone unless that's something you really want. But I believe that relationships are about both people equaly. I suppose there is always some give and take on both sides, but it should all balance out.

And yes, realtionships can be difficult, so not finding your right match the first time, or even the second time (and so on), dosen't mean you wont ever find them. You just can't give up because the the next one might be it!

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All anyone can be is themselves

Hi all
I wasn't really interest in a relationship and I hadn't even bothered looking for any in the past several year. After all it is kind of humiliating to come to terms and admitting I was raped, and a victim of abuse, at the hands of my Ex.

But that was years back thank goodness, but still have some scars from that experienced that need working on. I am ok now, most people love me because of my timid but fun loving and sometimes even a little on the mischievous side of me. Any way I had never given a thought about having another partner, not until I met another transsexual lady in a transsexual chat-room.

I can not be grateful enough in having allowed her into my life. I feel protected and safe with her. As she says she would not hesitate to donate her kidneys to me if I ever had need of them.

She has been a big help in relieved me of many of the fears, and taboos I had accumulated about sex through the years. Our relationship for the time being is more like of an intimate nature then anything sexual. Before I met her I had already resigned myself to live the rest of my life alone. Geee I hope I'm still on topic.

Cindy

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Peace to all

well shiera
you are right there, everything starts with feeling good
in your own body, then the rest will follow

by the way, happy 2008

Sierra

the things you write about tg ladies also work for biological women.
There is no difference.

thanks for your comment rob
i respect yours..

wish u a nice day

Hi Shiera,

do you find there is much jealousy between transgendered women? Do you think it'd be any worse/better than genetic women? Curious.



cheers,
Tony

i am not jealous with anyone,the only time I was jealous was when I know my man is giving attention to his ex(it pisses me off) but i'm so over it.

not much jealousy,competition is just good in a healthy way.

Kim

i think that is true asiana