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Post subject: Sex on first dates?  Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 6:45 pm |
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Do you respect someone less for having sex on a first date? Would you ever settle down with someone you met as a one night stand?
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Post subject: Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 6:54 pm |
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I don't like when people have a program for dates. Something like that dinner in a restaurant should be on the first date, kiss on the second, sex on the third.. If sex happened on the first date that's OK. Nothing to worry about it if both are happy and satisfied. Let's not be narrow minded 
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Post subject: Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 7:24 pm |
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I can honestly say I have never been on a date. All the men in my life I have met through night clubs. Maybe that is what I am doing wrong! I have had dinner cooked for me though which was a very pleasant surprise!
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Post subject: Re: Sex on first dates? Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 8:41 pm |
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We shouldnt act like robots in the dates. So I agree with Jay
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Post subject: Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 3:11 am |
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My opinion on the matter is - I would only ever go on a date with a man I liked and if I like a man I want to show that. I just worry that a man then brands you as 'easy' or a slut. To me,sex is natural so no labels should be attached to it as they usually only reflect social conservative attitudes. I do admit however that I would probably worry that a man thinks I don't like him if I don't have sex with him. I also am not sure how to let a man know how I feel about him without blubbering about emotions or having sex. The only other way is to cook for him. I love cooking and there is an inner housewife in me desperate for a man to cook for! M.
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Post subject: Re: Sex on first dates? Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 5:35 am |
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oztgirl wrote: Do you respect someone less for having sex on a first date? Possibility, YES.. oztgirl wrote: Would you ever settle down with someone you met as a one night stand? Possibility, BIG NOOOO...
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Post subject: Re: Sex on first dates? Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 8:27 am |
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lovingsoul wrote: oztgirl wrote: Do you respect someone less for having sex on a first date? Possibility, YES.. oztgirl wrote: Would you ever settle down with someone you met as a one night stand? Possibility, BIG NOOOO... Why?
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Post subject: Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 9:03 am |
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Why? hmmm.. just personal answers, no specific reason.. for O.N.S, maybe the guy obviously looking for fun.. and personally I never had ONS, but F.N.S.. few nites stand.. hehehehe.. 
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Post subject: Re: Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 9:29 am |
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lovingsoul wrote: Why? hmmm.. just personal answers, no specific reason.. for O.N.S, maybe the guy obviously looking for fun.. and personally I never had ONS, but F.N.S.. few nites stand.. hehehehe.. But doesn't every FNS start out with a ONS? 
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Post subject: Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 2:10 pm |
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indeed, but from my opinion, when it started with ONS and FNS means it base on sexual attraction or physical attraction which thats what im avoiding and not interested with having sex on 1st date..just me, being different.. well I have problem to trust guys.. especially sweet talker kinda guy..
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