SEX OR LOVE

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well Pete , good luck in your asian love quest ..

@iwanttub@grl , hope u will get boy with package .. ( despite im not sure how many of them really exist in this real world )

GOOD LUCK TO ALL OF US !!!

Mame, I don't think I have ever heard it said better. I agree with J that sexy is so much better with love. I am new here and new to ladyboys but I am looking for the right one. I do already have to kids and do not really want any more, They are grown and have their own lives. It will be hard to tell them that I have a Tgirl (when I find the right one) but it will have to be done. I know that my life is my own and whom I spend it with is for me to decide and not them. I am so serious about this that I have plans to retire in asia in 2 years and live with the lady I want to spend the rest of my life with.

I have met several ladies on MLB and they all seem to be so sweet, It is hard to decide which one you want to build a relationship with. I find that Ladyboys even though they are ladies at heart they do understand men more than your average woman does.

I have never wanted to be with a man because I like the soft touch of a woman, I like their beauty and their shape. They may be different and abnormal to some people but I think they are special. I think most have a good heart. I think the ladyboy prostitues give the rest a bad name. Which I don't understand because prostiutes amoung woman don't give all woman a bad name.

I know that most ladyboys have to over come discrimnation and have a hard time in some area's but they still do it becasue it is who they really are. They don't do it for attention or just for fun, they really are ladies with a penis, and who ever said a penis make a person a man anyway. So to all you ladyboys out there, I think your beautiful and I am happy to know you and will some day find the one for me.

Love you all.


Larry

I think the ladyboy prostitues give the rest a bad name. Which I don't understand because prostiutes amoung woman don't give all woman a bad name


well Larry , thanks for your long comment ..
first of all i wish u a good luck in your quest for the mrs right ..

and as a prostitute ladyboy , i would like to make your words to right . Have u ever wonder why many of us chose to be a prostitute ? Have u ever imagine how mens treat us and what they want from us the most .. True love or True sex ? What we been through in a life to be a ladyboy

You might be new to this ladyboy world ( is this reliable ? ) Anyway welcome tho the club !!

I think that's related to ladyboys being a 'fantasy' for most men, not a realistic relationship option (...other than a sexual relationship that is). So to men a ladyboy isn't as much a person as an object, sadly. And as we all know, men have objectified even women for time immemorial. So it stands to reason that ladyboys would deserve less respect and consideration than a woman in a man's [insular] eyes.

In other words, good luck trying to get most men to understand that much like women, all ladyboys aren't hookers. And oftentimes those that are, do it for their families (especially in developing South-East Asian countries). Unlike most women.

Interesting post.

I do not see a difference between no love no sex and no sex no love. Is that a typo?

In my mind if someone looks acts and thinks like a woman then they must be a woman. I do not understand why a ts woman would be treated differently or why anyone would have a different set of standards for a ts woman than they would for any other woman? It seems to me that sex is a very important part of human nature and abrogating it would go against that nature would it not?

I think love (and sex), can exist between any two people on several levels if both have a desire for this to be the case and make efforts to secure it within each other.

Excellent post coyote!

I think another problem exists that may go unnoticed.

Whatever a person turns into a business, (sex in this case), will lose its luster.

It reminds me of a cartoon I once seen where a guy was having sex with a prostitute and she was reading a magazine and looking at her watch waiting to punch the time clock.

Its impossible to maintain a separation between business and personal.

That and the longer a person engages in the business approach the more ingrained it becomes in time blurring otherwise healthy feelings obscuring the view with unhealthy feelings.

Eventually people often measure love using a business approach as a gauge and sometimes treat their partner or prospective partner as a client often making it very difficult to function well together on a personal, intimate, and spiritual level. I have observed this in some relationships.

I think a healthy loving relationship is all inclusive and balances the connection, intimacy and the sex drive. Its successful when its all wrapped up into one package.

well USMale , you were right ! i appreciate the way of your thinking ..
Being an escort made me see the real of hypocritical world..
there were tooooo little of men who understands ts gender and who treat us like a girl or it would be wise if i say like a human ... tooooo littleeeeee .. sounds bad ? do u have any idea about how many mens in this world dare to go out with ts on public ? i have observed this to all mens who i ever met in my entire life .. it's 1 out of 1000 .. what a pathetic huh ! AM I SUCH KIND OF FREAK TO THEM ???

" Eventually people often measure love using a business approach as a gauge and sometimes treat their partner or prospective partner as a client often making it very difficult to function well together on a personal, intimate, and spiritual level. I have observed this in some relationships.

I think a healthy loving relationship is all inclusive and balances the connection, intimacy and the sex drive. Its successful when its all wrapped up into one package.[/quote] "


HHHMMMMM how could i have all wrapped up in 1 package if all men who's ever been with me just want me for sex ? and they are the reason why i chose to be A PROSTITUTE !! ( i believe i'm not the only 1 in this world who had this bad life experiences )

I think most of what we experience in life is a reciprocal nature and more so a matter of personal choices and how we chose to manage those choices are paramount to the experience.
Everything a person choses to do in and with their lives has benefits and consequenses. Many times simply changing ones approach can significantly change the results.

I think one needs to recognize there is a stigma attached in most cultures with 2 people of the same plumbing sharing one bed.

A person such as yourself has bravely displayed to the world your self expression. You are no longer in a position that allows you to hide who and what you really are.

Many t,s hide for many years and dress in secret and have secret affairs too. A girl by nite and a guy by day to insure the public at large never knows.

Is it really that different?

Its human nature for men to want sex. All the time. Its human nature for women to want love. Its also human nature to hide those areas of life that people do not wish to deal with in the public eye. Not everyone is as brave as you are, they may not be in a position to be as brave as you are.

I am not defending their actions nor yours. I am merely making a point so this is not to be taken personally as that is not my intention.

In life and in love you see the worst and the best in people. Its difficult for everyone. I think we all struggle with making choices and dealing the results of those choices. I think we all keep our fingers crossed that the choices we make will in the end bring us the happiness we had hoped to obtain.

dear mr USMale

I do learn from experiences ..

transsexual = pre op / post op with hormone 24/7 girl
tgirl / ladyboy / she male = with hormone 24/7 girl ( pre op ts also could be described in this group too )
transvetite / cross dresser = day as male night as female

Thanks for telling me that lies and hypocrite were 'human nature' ( despite you didn't mentioned it , yet you meant it )

There will be no difficulty if you are honest , loyal , respect , sincere and be what you are as a human . Go to hell to what other people want to say about you as long as you know what you really want which will makes you happy .. you will obtain happiness then .. most important is , you need to be honest to yourself before to the others